WHY IT IS BETTER TO MARRY LATE

No grudges! It's just personal. I have been a fan of late marriages. I deeply admire those who marry in their 30s and 40s than those who marry in their 20s. I feel time and age makes human grow with experience. So who I was 20 years ago is not the same person I am today. Humans grow, humans change, needs and wants change too with time. It doesn't usually sit well with me seeing a girl of 20 married without education and stays at home complaining everyday of an abusive husband. I don't smile to all these things. I feel at 30s and 40s a woman may have discovered herself, have a job, have a business, have money and can make decisions for herself. Marrying late is good and can also be a bad decision. It all depends on the individual. This is why I like late marriage.

1. You have enough time to get education

As a single lady, you have every time to yourself. You can use that time to get the education you want. Because when husband comes and children start knocking, you barely have time for yourself. So 20s are for education and self discovery.

2. You are mature

The more you mature in age, the more you overcome the tendency of being abused or getting stuck in an abusive relationship. Age and time goes with maturity, wisdom, experiences, money and other good things that make life comfortable.

3. You have achieved numerous things other than marriage.

Marriage is additional. Without marriage, without a man you can survive. So a white wedding won't be the only achievement in your life. You have other achievement to be grateful for.

4. You have money

Baby girl, I can't overemphasize the benefits of a woman having her money especially in this generation and time. You buy what you want. You eat what you like. You don't depend on anyone financially. You don't follow anybody rules. No one cages you with money or things you can't afford for yourself. That life is freedom.

5. You love deeply and get serious with relationships

No matter the huge money you have in your bank account or the mansion you have built, you would definitely need a partner. You would need love, romance and comfort. You would need touches, smiles, kisses, hugs, calls and lovely messages. You are not an island. You would need relationships and unconditional love.

6. You have a job, business and sources of income.

You can contribute to the development and growth of your family.

This is why I like late marriage. This may not work for everyone, but sorting yourself out before settling down is the best thing to do as a woman.

Elizabeth Diaries ❤️ 

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